Wednesday, March 19, 2025

Hello again!

We’re still here! Life is crazy as usual, but we are still here. Let’s see. I last wrote to you all when I was sick with that nasty bug several weeks ago. That hung on for almost 5 days. I don’t recommend getting it! I took the photo below of Mom and Dennis to send to the kids when we were visiting a couple of weeks ago. It initiated a FaceTime call with Alex so he could talk to Grandma. He tries to call when he knows we are actually there or he doesn’t get to visit with her. He enjoys talking to her and she loves seeing him and “baby J” although we’re not sure if she knows who “J” is.

Dennis had his planned endoscopy two weeks ago today. All went very, very well. He said it was like a day at the spa.😂 We arrived at the hospital at 6:30 AM and by 9:00 we were at Village Inn enjoying breakfast! The test results came back that he does not have Barrett’s esophagus, which is a precancerous condition, as he was told in Spokane. He also does not have to have any more endoscopies unless he has problems. All very, very good news.

I have put up a few Easter decorations around the condo.



I made the Easter eggs years and years ago. I think it was a free pattern on Ravelry if I remember correctly.

Last Wednesday we had a blizzard and ended up with almost 9 inches of snow. On Tuesday it had been 72° and an absolutely gorgeous spring day. This is what happens in Nebraska!

By Thursday, everything was melting and by Saturday 8 inches of snow was gone!

I have been busy since I was away.

Several baby blankets were made for the open door mission.

This one hasn’t been blocked yet so it looks a little wonky.

And this is my “in progress” blanket. I also have a pair of socks on the needles for my take along project.

I’m sorry I’ve been away. Life just got rather intense for a while with me being sick, Dennis’s endoscopy and Mom. Always Mom. She’s taken another downhill turn in her memory. We try to be with her every day for at least a little while. Last night, I went over and gave her a pedicure and helped her get ready for bed. We had hoped to go camping yesterday, today and tomorrow just to get away, but still close by, but we have storms predicted for tomorrow, so decided to put it off for a week. We have been enjoying going to fish fries at the Catholic Church around the corner from us on Friday evenings with two other couples from church. That’s about the extent of our social life at this point. As I said, Mom is keeping us very busy. They have increased one of her medication’s to help with the paranoia, hallucinations and confusion. It seems to be helping a little bit the last couple of days. We get phone calls, asking us if one of us can come over because she refuses her medication’s or even to have them do her blood test for blood sugar. She’s sure they’re trying to kill her. At least at this point, she still trusts Dennis and I, and if we tell her, it’s okay she’ll take her medicines. Especially me for some reason. Sometimes she’s even a little suspicious of Dennis, which is really strange. But I guess there’s no explaining dementia is there? I dread the day when she doesn’t know who we are either.

We weren't able to take our trip to London after all. We just didn't feel we could be away from Mom that long with the change in her behavior. We felt so bad, not being able to be there for "Baby J's" birthday.  Since we were also unable to get any of our money back, it means we can't plan another trip for awhile. We'll have to save for another trip and as you can imagine, it's not inexpensive to fly "across the pond." We're grateful that the kids understand but three-year old "Baby J" was really disappointed. To top it off, the gift we mailed to her, that can't be replaced, hasn't arrived and they fear it could have been stolen from their doorstep. I'm still praying that it is just lost in the mail and that it will arrive soon.

I’ll try to be back commenting on your blogs and updating you all here. I haven’t even opened my laptop for a couple of weeks. I just didn’t have the energy. I hope you are all well and enjoying the spring time or the fall if you’re “down under!”

Blessings and love,
Betsy

Lead Me To Calvary

Text: Jennie EvelynHussey
Music: William J. Kirkpatrick 

King of my life, I crown Thee nowThine shall the glory beLest I forget Thy thorn-crowned browLead me to Calvary
Lest I forget GethsemaneLest I forget Thine agonyLest I forget Thy love for meLead me to Calvary
May I be willing, Lord, to bearDaily my cross for TheeEven Thy cup of grief to shareThou hast borne all for me
Lest I forget GethsemaneLest I forget Thine agonyLest I forget Thy love for meLead me to Calvary
Lest I forget GethsemaneLest I forget Thine agonyLest I forget Thy love for meLead me to Calvary

15 comments:

  1. You have been busy. I am glad you feel better and Dennis has nothing to worry about health wise. Dementia is awful, seeing a loved one slide down into it deeper and deeper is so very hard. Prayers for you all. Sorry to hear that your trip was cancelled. I know you were looking forward to it.

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  2. Love that song, "Lead me to Calvary". So wonderful to be reminded of Calvary and Gethesemane, especially as we enter the Easter season. Too many people are not even aware of what that means or what Easter really is all about. May we never forget. I am so sorry you didn't get to go to London for Baby J's birthday. That is sad, but I know you made the right decision. It's too bad you can't get your money back, and also that her gift hasn't arrived. Do you have tracking on it?
    That is a wonderful picture of Dennis and his Mom. He definitely takes after her! I know this is a hard time for all of you. I pray the new meds will help her with the paranoia, etc. That is especially difficult. My heart goes out to you both as you deal with this. One day at a time. (((hugs))) Your Easter decorations look so nice. I guess I need to get busy with that too. I'm thinking probably next week. I still have some St. Patrick's day things out. Please take care and I hope you are both feeling 100% better. Hope you can go camping again soon too.

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    1. We had tracking on the package, but once it leaves the states the tracking ends. So that doesn’t help us at all. Thanks for commenting Pam. Blessings, Betsy.

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  3. BETSY ME ALEGRA SABER DE TI NUEVAMENTE Y TE AGRADEZCO TUS ORACIONES A NUESTRO FAVOR. LAMENTO ESCUCHAR SOBRE LA SALUD MENTAL DE SU SUEGRA, ES MUY TRISTE VER QUE TU MAMA NO TE RECUERDE O NO SEPA QUIENES SON, ORACIONES A SU FAVOR. TE ENVIO UN ABRAZO Y ORACIONES PARA TODOS USTEDES, CONFIANDO EN EL SEÑOR QUE EL TIENE EL CONTROL DE TODO EN NUESTRAS VIDAS.

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    1. BETSY, I'M GLAD TO HEAR FROM YOU AGAIN AND THANK YOU FOR YOUR PRAYERS IN OUR FAVOR. I'M SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR MOTHER-IN-LAW'S MENTAL HEALTH, IT'S VERY SAD TO SEE THAT YOUR MOM DOESN'T REMEMBER YOU OR DOESN'T KNOW WHO YOU ARE, PRAYERS IN HER FAVOR. I SEND YOU A HUG AND PRAYERS FOR ALL OF YOU, TRUSTING IN THE LORD THAT HE HAS CONTROL OF EVERYTHING IN OUR LIVES.

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  4. Good to hear from you Betsy. Glad you're feeling better and that all came out well with Dennis and his test. Sorry to hear about "Mom".....take good care. diane in northern wis

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  5. You are living in very stressful times with your dear MIL so confused and needy. I hope you can get away, just the two of you, even for a short while. Too bad the weather is so unpredictable. I'm sorry you had to cancel your trip. That must have been very disappointing for you and for Baby J.

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  6. Hi Betsy, Take as much time as you need to rest in between taking care of your MIL. My mom had dementia for many years so I understand what you and Dennis are going through. I'll remember you, Dennis and your MIL in my prayers.

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  7. I sure understand the complex drain on your energies when you have so many hurdles all at once! sorry about your missed visit-you made the right call! Good news about Dennis' tests!!! The baby blankets are beautiful! Take care!

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  8. You guys have really been through it. How lucky mom is to have you both helping as much as you are. Dementia is so cruel. Dad called me George at the end so George I was but I could see in his eyes he knew who I was on some level. It was such a heavy load to carry but I don't regret a minute of it. Hang in there.

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  9. Betsy, being sick is no fun at all. Your blankets came out really pretty. I'm going to hopefully get back to crocheting dishcloths. I'm temporarily giving up the granny square yarn. Its driving me crazy! I have a new crochet pillow which has been helpful for my shoulder. What a relief about Dennis. I'm glad his results came out good. I don't think I've heard that hymn before. I will need to go listen to it. Have a great coming week.

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  10. I'd been watching your blog for weeks to see if you posted and nothing until yesterday - yet your post says March 19??? Hmmm, Blogger up to no-good lately. So glad to see your post, no matter the date!

    My son was diagnosed with Barrett's Esophagus in 2011 when the doctor had him scoped due to his GERD, for which he had Nissen Fundoplication surgery after that. He's over due for having the surgery re-done; supposed to be every ten years. Glad that Dennis does not have to go through what my son does.

    Sure am sorry to read that Mom is getting worse. It's hard watching our family members go through these cognitive imapairments. I'll be praying specifically about this. Hopefully you can get to see Baby J soon in the future.

    Come vitisit me over on my nlog - I made it open to anyone, so there are posts you probably haven't seen. Sending you much love and wishing the biggest blessings on you and Dennis!

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  11. Great to hear from you Betsy I actually posted recently and missed you not commenting, but can totally understand why.

    Glad you're feeling better and that Dennis had such good results. Praise God! Such a blessing!
    Sorry you missed your trip over to see Baby J for her birthday. May God comfort her baby heart. A little 3y.o doesn't understand always..

    Sorry mum is so poorly and praying she will always know who you and Dennis are. God be with you both as you deal with this difficult situation.
    Sending prayer hugs 🙏🏻🤗🥰 and be assured of my prayers.
    Shaz in Oz. X

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  12. Betsy, I enjoy reading what you wrote about life and grateful that Dennis is good health wise. Sorry that you don't get to England again. Good memories though for you. I miss being in England again. But good memories for me as well. It's been a bit cooler today after leaving church and the restaurant, when it started to rain. You are in my thoughts and prayers for your mom in law and hope all things go well with life. --Becky

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