Monday, January 1, 2024

Happy New Year!



How was your week in between Christmas and New Year’s Eve? Dennis was in bed by nine last night. I stayed up till long after midnight researching Alzheimer’s information for Mom. Really exciting, right? We are entering a new phase and she seems to have developed more issues over the past few weeks. It’s a confusing time for all of us as we try to navigate this road together.

Christmas decorations have been put away for another year. I always like to have the house back in order by January 1. We had music playing on the TV on YouTube. The three people you see on the screen are siblings who sing so beautifully together. I don’t remember what their names are though, as we’ve just discovered them this week.

Dennis took down the outside lights and put them away. Tomorrow he goes back to the surgeons office for X-rays to see if his hand is healed enough to take the splint off. You will probably hear him whoop for joy if he’s told he doesn’t have to wear it anymore. Six months has been a long time and he gets very frustrated at not being able to do the things he wants to.

I don’t know why this photo is so blurry, but this is Dennis‘s brother, Doug, Mom and Dennis on Christmas day when we had them all over for dinner. Doug‘s girlfriend took the photos and sent them to me. It’s crazy that they’re so blurry.

This is one of my favorite photos taken that day. Mom and her two boys. The Alzheimer’s is definitely getting worse and all of the activities this week have not helped. She has been very agitated and anxious.

I’ve been working on another sweater for Piper. It’s not progressing as fast as the last one, but we’ve had some very busy times over the past few weeks. Right now I’m knitting the shawl collar. This is the “Portage” pattern that I’ve made for Mandy and myself.

I’ve been driving back to our old apartment building twice a day to walk the dog of our neighbor there. She had surgery last week and isn’t supposed to walk Lucy yet. It’s surprising how much time driving there and back takes. It does help explain why I don’t seem to get much done around here right now.

I need to get busy packing for our trip. We leave in less than 2 1/2 weeks and I’ve done virtually nothing so far. We booked this cruise well over a year and a half ago and the time has finally arrived. We will be sailing on the brand new Carnival Jubilee that had its first cruise just this past week. It holds over 6200 people plus the crew! It’s a huge ship. We’re going with our friends, Neal and Jenny from Spokane. They are flying to Galveston, but Dennis and I are planning to drive down. Since we booked it so long ago, we got an amazing deal on the price. People who booked later are paying double and triple what we did for the same cabins. It is Dennis’s, Neal and Jenny’s first cruise, so I hope all goes well. 

A reminder of the love and promise that has been given to all of us.

Blessings and love to you in the new year.
Betsy

17 comments:

  1. Happy New Year Betsy!! Sorry you have more issues with Dennis' Mom to deal with - hope you can figure things out and hope things ease up for you a bit. Fletch likes to leave the Christmas things up for a bit, so our tree is still up and decoratedand other things around. Guess I will clean it all up later. Enjoy the cruise!!

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  2. I'm sorry to hear about your Mom's troubles. I hope your research helped you find some strategies to ease her time.
    Have a wonderful time on the cruise!

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  3. Happy New Year! A cruise how wonderful!! You will have a wonderful time! Yes Alzheimers is the pits, there are different meds. My Dad was very combative just before he slipped into a coma and then went on hospice...the alzheimers the last stages can be awful...the people we know and love are gone and just a shell remains that is so confused.

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  4. Oh, a cruise! Good for you. That's a great way to start the new year. Fingers crossed of Dennis. The Mister sees his surgeon tomorrow to see if he has to have more procedures. I sure hope not.
    Sorry to hear about mom. The one thing I learned about Dad was you have to keep them in a routine. Any deviation leads to an acceleration of symptoms. You do get to a point where things start to go downhill quickly. I wasn't ready for how fast it went for dad. I was expecting a much longer descent. It was a blessing though when we came to the end of the road. It''s such a cruel disease-and one that I have the genetic disposition for according to my DNA. Sigh.....

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  5. Sorry to hear about your mom! Alzheimer's is a nasty disease. And I hope Dennis gets a good report. We will have our Christmas things up until next weekend because our second daughter just got back from Vietnam on Friday, and they are no where near to being back in this time zone! Enjoy your cruise!

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  6. LAMENTO OIR SOBRE EL ALZEIMER, QUE TRISTEZA Y ES DURO VER A UN FAMILIAR ATRAVESAR ESTA ENFERMEDAD, DIOS LOS CONSUELE Y FORTALEZCA MIENTRAS RECORREN ESTE CAMINO JUNTOS Y APOYANDOSE UNOS A OTROS. TE DESEO UN MUY BENDECIDO 2024, GRACIAS POR PASAR POR MI BLOG Y DEJAR TU LINDO COMENTARIO, GRACIAS POR SER MI AMIGA BLOGUERA.

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    1. SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT ALZEIMER'S, HOW SAD AND HARD TO SEE A FAMILY MEMBER GO THROUGH THIS DISEASE, GOD COMFORT AND STRENGTHEN YOU AS YOU WALK THIS ROAD TOGETHER AND SUPPORT EACH OTHER. I WISH YOU A VERY BLESSED 2024, THANKS FOR STOPPING BY MY BLOG AND LEAVING YOUR NICE COMMENT, THANKS FOR BEING MY BLOGGING FRIEND.

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  7. I'm sorry to hear Dennis' mom is not doing well. We went through that same thing with Steve's dad a couple of years back. He had dementia but was "okay" for awhile. Things seemed to get worse VERY quickly and he had the agitation and became very combative. There are new drugs now that are supposed to help with that. I wish they had them back then. He just seemed so miserable like he KNEW he was acting badly, but just wasn't able to control himself.

    I think the cruise will do you a world of good. Enjoy yourselves. Maybe Dennis will be going with two free hands!!! Wouldn't THAT be wonderful.

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  8. I am sorry for the way your MIL is slipping into Alzheimer's. It's very difficult to see people we love fading away like that. Praying for your family as you go through this season of her life. Regarding the blurry pictures, your friend probably has a different type of phone, maybe an android or vice versa, do you have an apple phone? I have discovered that sometimes the difference in phones means the pictures don't transfer over as clearly. It may appear clear on her phone, but not to you. I wonder if she could send it to you via an email and then you could copy it from there, it might be better. Might be worth a try. How exciting for you to be going on a cruise. I pray all will go well for you and that you will all have a wonderful time together. We've never been on a cruise and I really can't say that I would want to, but I am very happy for you and hope you have a marvelous time. Praying the hand is healed and the splint can come off. I can imagine how frustrating that would be. Oh, that sweater is going to be beautiful! What a blessing to be able to do that for her. I will be praying for you all and your MIL. May God direct your paths as you seek answers.
    Have a blessed and Happy New Year!

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  9. Thank you Betsy, for your post. They're always fun to read and love your pictures too. So sorry to hear that "Mom" is getting worse....alzheimers is really a nasty disease. I pray that the dementia will slow down so you will have more time with her. Love the sweater you are making for Piper....it looks so pretty already. Dennis seems like he is always pretty handy, even with that splint on his hand/arm. So you're going on a cruise....sounds wonderful. I have never been but probably never will now with my ostomy problems. Maybe I can enjoy it through you guys! God Bless You and take good care. Our Christmas decor won't come down until after Epiphany and sometimes a week or two later than that!

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  10. Praying Betsy.. for the PEACE and JOY of our Father to be with mum in her confusion (has she had any meds recently, my dad had it and experienced severe relapse with jabs). Jehovah Shalom the LORD our peace.
    Prayer helps though and praying for Dennis healing well. Jehovah Rapha the LORD that health thee.

    Prayer hugs,
    Shaz in Oz. Xxx

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  11. I've not removed any Christmas decorations yet. I did make pumpkin banana bread with chopped walnuts this morning. I hope you get things figured out for mom. No fun. In my prayers 🙏. Enjoy your cruise and a save drive to TX. (?) I check my photos out before I go elsewhere or send someone photos. I hope Dennis doesn't have wear the wrap around his hand much more. I need to remove a few more rows on my back of sweater as its an inch 2 long. Then I'll start one of the fronts.
    Happy and Blessed New Year ✨️ 🙏
    to you both. ✨️ Becky

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  12. The latest sweater for Piper is going to be another lovely one. She's a lucky girl.
    I don't remember if you mentioned a cruise before but I'm sure you'll have a great time, especially since you're going with good friends.
    I'm so sorry for your poor sweet MIL. I hope you can find out lots of helpful information in order to be a help to her.
    GM

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  13. Happy New Years! You have been so busy. I'm so sorry about Dennis's mom. It is a challenge for families. I will pray for all of you. The sweater is wonderful! I am listening to hear if I can hear Dennis cheer - this has been a journey. How wonderful it is time for your cruise with friends. I can't wait to hear all about it. Be sure to share food pictures, too. I love meals someone else prepares, LOL. We had a grandson come down with RSV the week before Christmas. We were vaccinated a few days before, (darn procrastinators) and were not immune when he was here prior to diagnosis. He had quite a time and we came down with it on the 26th. We spent the week between the holidays in our recliners with boxes of tissues and all kinds of cold remedies (none helped - eventually we started feeling better). Yesterday I finally had a burst of energy, washed all the blankets and bedding, cleaned out the refrigerator and cleaned the house. Today - I'm resting.

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  14. Perhaps you will get some knitting time on the cruise! I hope Dennis gets a good report from his dr appt. The new sweater for Piper is going to be so sweet--look at all of those garter rows! I'm sorry for the decline in your MIL; it is a relentless disease!
    (I like the first meme---I want to get back to my art again!)

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  15. Hello, my friend! Happy and Blessed New Year! I am traveling the same path with my dear mother. A nurse once told me that this horrible disease takes our loved ones from us twice ~ first when they are living and then when they pass. We recently changed my mom's medicine, and she is much less agitated. Every day we have with her is a gift, right? Now, enjoy your cruise!!!!!!!! How wonderful!!!

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  16. All our Christmas is done and put away until next year. The house kinda looks naked! Live goes on . . .

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