Mom passed two weeks ago this past Thursday. Dennis and I spent Friday at the cemetery and then at her apartment beginning to pack up things. On Saturday we went back with his brother and finished with the apartment. We needed to have everything out by the end of the month. Of course, most things were brought back here to our condo where we spent last week sifting through photos and memories. We sold her bedroom furniture on Facebook marketplace and distributed other things amongst the grandchildren. Of course, all of the paperwork remains to be done as we have not yet received death certificates. It’s a whole process isn’t it? So much to be done when a life ends. Meanwhile you have all the emotional aspects to work through while grieving.
Dennis‘s brother and his girlfriend left on Monday after over a week here with us. Last Saturday we decided to take them to the zoo along with one of Doug‘s daughters, Katie and her three children and Piper. It was a lovely few hours of escape, although the zoo was busier than I have ever seen it. With all that was happening in our family we had not realized that it was Berkshire Hathaway’s Annual week of meetings, each year many of the investors congregate in Omaha, Warren Buffett’s hometown. Along with all of the meetings, they have many social activities planned during the week. Apparently the zoo is planned for Saturday. 😬 We still had a wonderful time. Of course we always have fun when Miss Piper is with us! Here we are in the aquarium. It’s one of my favorite places in the zoo.

It was a welcome respite to an otherwise busy, busy week. I’m so glad to know that Mom is now at peace and enjoying her eternal life with Dad, Karen, and their baby Susan, who have gone on before her. It’s the hope and promise that each Christian holds onto.

I did make a few baby blankets since I last posted, although I went almost an entire week last week without picking up a crochet hook! Can you believe it? I had no desire to craft at all. In fact, I would sit here in the evening coloring on my iPad instead. A mindless, brainless activity for my numb mind.



After Doug and Nancy left about noon on Monday, Dennis and I packed up the camper and went to Mahoney State Park just about about 20 miles from home. We returned home on Thursday. We did absolutely nothing, besides opening up the camper for the season. And for the first time ever, everything worked our first trip out! Usually there are a few issues when we de-winterize. But not this year! I think God knew we needed an easy time of it. We spent time just sitting in our chairs outside, enjoying the birds and the quiet. I think it was just what we needed.
It was a welcome respite to an otherwise busy, busy week. I’m so glad to know that Mom is now at peace and enjoying her eternal life with Dad, Karen, and their baby Susan, who have gone on before her. It’s the hope and promise that each Christian holds onto.
I did make a few baby blankets since I last posted, although I went almost an entire week last week without picking up a crochet hook! Can you believe it? I had no desire to craft at all. In fact, I would sit here in the evening coloring on my iPad instead. A mindless, brainless activity for my numb mind.
After Doug and Nancy left about noon on Monday, Dennis and I packed up the camper and went to Mahoney State Park just about about 20 miles from home. We returned home on Thursday. We did absolutely nothing, besides opening up the camper for the season. And for the first time ever, everything worked our first trip out! Usually there are a few issues when we de-winterize. But not this year! I think God knew we needed an easy time of it. We spent time just sitting in our chairs outside, enjoying the birds and the quiet. I think it was just what we needed.
I’m planning to spend some time today trying to catch up on your blogs. Please, please forgive me for missing the last several weeks. Our hope is that life will soon slow down although we do have several camping trips planned throughout the summer.

Blessings and love,
Blessings and love,
Betsy
O That Will Be Glory
Text and music: Charles H. Gabriel
1 When all my labors and trials are o’er,
And I am safe on that beautiful shore,
Just to be near the dear Lord I adore
Will through the ages be glory for me.
Refrain:
O that will be glory for me,
Glory for me, glory for me;
When by His grace I shall look at His face,
That will be glory, be glory for me
2. When by the gift of His
infinite grace, I am recorded
in heaven, a place,
just to be there, and to look in
His face will through
the ages, Be glory for me.
3. Friends will be there. I have
loved long ago;
Joy like a river around me will flow;
yet, just a smile from my Savior,
I know, will through
the ages, Be glory for me.
Lots of adjustments to make after a death in the family, I am still sorting through some of my Mom's and hence Grandma's stuff over a year later. Be kind to yourselves. Heaven must be the best place ever to celebrate Mother's Day! Prayers for comfort for you and Dennis in the days ahead. Now you are both Orphans...I know that hit me hard...but must carry on as the "older" generation.
ReplyDeleteWelcome back! I know it's been a difficult few weeks, but God certainly was right there with you, giving you strength, comfort and wisdom all the way. And how wonderful that you were able to get away for a little bit after the company left, etc. Sometimes we just need to take time to unwind and recenter ourselves after being torn in so many directions for so long. Yes, it will take some time to figure out your "new normal". And Mother's Day is always a bittersweet day anyway, but especially when we've just lost someone so dear. My mother passed away right before Mother's Day (in 2006), and we had her Celebration of Life the day before Mother's Day. So yes, this day always takes me back...plus other situations of now having not only all our parents in heaven, but our son as well. So yeah, I hear you. But I do rejoice in thinking about what a wonderful time they are having in heaven! There are no tears or sorrows there! "Oh that will be glory for me"....a perfect song to sing indeed!!! (((Hugs)))
ReplyDeleteso very sorry for the loss of your mom. And...I know this Mother's Day is especially hard..Prayers for you! Beautiful afghans. Wishing for you Peace this Mother's Day...may you be Blessed
ReplyDeleteYou know she is at peace in heaven, but it leaves an emptiness here on earth. I know the first mornings are always hard. You are used to a routine and responsibilities and then - you are lost. I'm glad you got to spend some time with Dennis's brother and the zoom trip looks like it was fun! You and Piper have the biggest smiles. I can picture you sitting in chairs at the campground, just listening to the beauty of the outdoors around you. I am sure you found peace in your surroundings.
ReplyDeleteHappy Mother's Day. It's been over 20 years and I still have a hard time with it. I would always buy my mom a Whitman's sampler and we'd share it on her porch that looked over the water where I was supposed to have scattered her ashes. Never did. Not ready. Might never be.
ReplyDeleteIt's good to know that in the midst of all the decisions and packing things up and all , you took a few days to go camping, all by yourselves, to rest a bit.
ReplyDeleteIt's hard to come to grips with us being the older generation now. So many adjustments to make. Peace and Blessing.
Spending time with family is the perfect thing to do at a time like this.
ReplyDeleteHappy Mother's Day! Once again, beautiful handiwork. So glad you got to go camping. I am very much anticipating our first camping trip this year. Praying it happens.
ReplyDeleteHappy Mother's Day Betsy!
ReplyDeleteOh indeed that will be glory to be with the dear LORD were adore sis, and I really look forward to that day.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you've had some time away as well as family time, I thought of my darling mum yesterday for our mothers day. It's always a big adjustment
You're in my prayers.
Prayer hugs, Shaz in Oz.x
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I didn’t know. I’m so sorry 😢. Sending you hugs.
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Glad you are getting through all the difficulties that come with losing a loved one. I know it is hard. Glad you were able to get away for a short camping trip too. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in these trying days.
ReplyDeleteYou blankets are beautiful but I love the rainbow ones the best.
ReplyDeleteAdjusting to the new normal is always hard. I'm glad you still have to much loving family and friends to help you out.
It is a surreal time after a loved one dies; I'm glad you had help emptying the apt and then went camping! Beautiful baby blankets!
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry Betsy for your loss!! It will take time to work through this loss in your life! How wonderful that you were able to spend these last years with your Mom! Praying for you both as you look to find your new normal. Piper is soo precious! Hugs and prayers!
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry for the loss of your mom. But, I rejoice with you that you will see her again one day. My mom died in 2005 and my dad in 2019. I know that 'shift' you talk about. It wasn't something my sisters and I expected but it was almost a tangible change in the universe. Thankfully the Lord has been walking with us every day. He is our comfort and hope. God bless you Betsy as you walk this path.
ReplyDeleteReading this touched my heart in so many ways. I remember when my own dear mother passed away eleven years ago, because you always miss your mother.
ReplyDeleteThe hope and confidence of seeing them again is blessedness indeed!
I am glad you were able to spend time with family.
Your crocheted baby blankets are beautiful. Blessings!
I am so sorry for your and Dennis's loss. I've not been keeping up with blogs I'm sorry to say. I'm glad she went peacefully and that you were able to be there with her. I'm glad you got away to a peaceful campsite to relax and unwind. Emotions are exhausting not ever counting all the other things involved in the death of a family member.
ReplyDeleteI love your blankets that you made and especially the first one with all those lovely colors. The picture of you and Piper is so awesome! You should frame that one!
Take care and please extend my condolences to Dennis also. Hugs to both of you!
So sorry to hear about your mom. Yes indeed, it is a process . . . filled with emotion. I was there 10 years ago when the Lord called my own mom home. It all works out and life goes on with an emptiness always there. Even at my age, (old haha) I think of my parents every day. It's good you took a break from it all and visited the zoo with your family. Condolences to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteAdjusting after such a l loss is a difficult thing. Wishing you and Dennis peace. That's a lovely picture of you and Piper.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear about your mom's passing. My mom has been gone for ten years now and Mother's Day still gives me a lump in my throat. ((hugs))
ReplyDeleteWhen you are a caretaker, it is quite difficult to let go of the habit of being there for someone else. It's good you moved back and were able to spend the time with her that she had left. As you mentioned, so many people don't have family to be there with them and for them. Your friendship and visits will surely be appreciated by the residents of the assisted living facility. And your lovely blankets will truly bring comfort and warmth to those who receive them. Bless you.
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